DEFINATION OF ROMANCE
Ever wondered why people enjoy kissing in the first place? Or what move guarantees you to land that next date, even if you don’t have the slightest clue how to kiss?Most people think that kissing comes natural and there is nothing to learn. Well, this is not true for most of us. Kissing is definitely an art, and it reguires practise and experience if you want to become a good kisser. No one is born a master.
Kissing 101: Your Complete Guide To Kissing Tips and Techniques
If you stress about whether or not you are a good kisser, this is the right place to be. Everyone can learn how to kiss properly, and you make no exception for that. This blog will be your one-stop shop for all things related to the amazing, spine-tingling, toe-curling world of kissing!
There’s plenty of debate as to how humans first learned how to kiss. However, kissing as we know it was probably perfected by ancient Romans, who used kissing on the mouth and eyelids to greet each other and seal bargains. Just imagine doing that with the cashier clerk at your local store!
A recent online poll pegged that “the most important part of kissing” was the use of hands. Not surprisingly, incorporating your hands when learning how to kiss will guarantee that you’ll get that second date. Try cupping the person’s face with your hands, or running your hands through their hair. If you’re feeling more lustful, gentle tug on the person’s hair and lightly drag your nails on their scalp. They’ll be readying for more than just kissing after that move!
The same poll also indicated that the things that ruin kissing the most are: too much saliva, using too much tongue, chapped lips and traveling hands. So keep your hands at a PG level, and learn to master the art of the French kiss before introducing any tongue action!
Don’t restrict your kisses to the mouth area; in fact, the ears, neck and shoulders all make great places to give a quick kiss or two. For a sweet gesture, kiss your partner’s shoulder the next time they wear a tank top. Or whisper something romantic in their ear and give it a gentle kiss. And don’t forget the power of neck kisses – just don’t leave any hickeys, as they’re a kissing faux pas!
If you want to make your partner take the kissing initiative, then perfect this move: tilt your head slightly to your right and slowly look at their face. Your eyes should follow this motion: look at their eyes, then their nose, back to their eyes, and finally, linger on the lips. You’ll be kissing in no time flat!
There is a big difference between a kiss that goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes. According to Michelle Penney, the author of “Kissing 101: Your Complete Guide To Kissing Tips and Techniques”, five main reasons that usually differentiate super kisses from duds are emotional connection, great comfort level, ability to forget a world, imagination, and rhytm. You can read her full article from the link below.
Become a Super-Kisser!
Michelle Penney has helped singles and couples of all ages from all over the world to improve their kissing techniques. If you really want to master your kissing skills, her “Kissing 101” book is definitely the best way to do that. This book has been around since 2004 and it still continues to be one of the most popular electronic kissing tutorials.
Here are just a little of what you’ll find inside the book:
Full color step-by-step photos how to kiss
Master the art of the french kissingWhat it takes to kiss someone for the first time
What to do if someone doesn’t want to kiss you back
What makes the most romantic and exciting kisses
How to identify all the embarrassing things to avoid
Learn some crazy and spontaneous things to do
How to make someone want to kiss you
The differences in perception between men and women when it comes to kissing
There are also much more. You can read all the exciting details clicking the link below.
Your Complete Guide To Kissing Tips and Techniques
Now, take your time and familiarize with the resources you find here. Besides kissing, you will find a lot of other romance and dating related information. Hopefully you get something useful out of them.
Below you will find a variety of kiss types. If you find some that catch your fancy, feel free to try them
Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.
Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.
Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.
Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.
Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate kiss.
Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.
Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.
Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.
Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.
French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss".
Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.
Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.
Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.
Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!
Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.
Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.
Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.
Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual.
Lip Sucking Kiss - When kissing gently suck on their lower lip. This can be very exciting.
Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.
Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.
Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above your lover and kissing them from over their head. This way, each kisser can take the hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting kiss.
Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and kiss your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation. Invigorating and intoxicating.
Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.
Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.
Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."
Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.
The Whipped Cream Kiss - Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.
Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)
Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.
Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.
Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
TIPS ON ROMANCING A WOMEN
1. Tell her at least once a day that you love her.2. Sneak up behind her and hug her for no reason at all.
3. Pause for a moment and become lost with in her eyes.
4. Send her a card in the mail anonomously, yet inside signed by you.
5. Seek out a song that reminds you of her and give it to her.
6. Hold her hand as much as possible.
7. Send flowers to her while she is at work.
8. Write her a poem or a love letter.
9. Place her hand upon your heart and let her know it is your gift to her.
10. Send her email and e-greetings often.
11. Cook her dinner even if you do not know how to cook.
12. Give her a gift for no reason.
13. Take her for a walk in a park at night.
14. Make her a bouquet of silk flowers.
15. Take her to a romantic movie.
16. Compliment her, tell her she is beautiful.
17. Before you go to sleep invite her into your dreams.
18. Sacrafice a night out with the guys just to be with her.
19. Buy her a scented candle.
20. Tell her a story.
21. Let her know she is the love of your life.
22. Put little notes, flowers etc where you know she will find them.
23. Brush her hair.
24. Comfort her in times of sorrow.
25. Be there for her in times of need.
26. Take her out for a night on the town.
27. Surprise her with a bubble bath.
28. Leave romantic songs on her voice mail.
29. Respect her for who she is.
30. Create romantic coupons she can use anytime.
31. Listen to her and give her time.
32. Create her a web page full of love.
33. Buy her favorite book in hardback.
34. Take her for a drive through the country side.
35. Make her breakfast in bed.
36. Buy her a puppy or a kitten.
37. Rent/Buy her favorite movie (even if you do not like it).
38. When at the store get her a bubblegum ball machine ring.
39. Campout in the living room floor.
40. Order her favorite food and have it delivered to her secretly.
41. Make her a cd of love songs with you as a radio dj.
42. Draw her a picture.
43. Understand her and give her time.
44. Hug and kiss her especially when she has a bad day.
45. Make her a greeting card.
46. Wink at her and blow her kisses.
47. Write "I Love You" on your bathroom mirror.
48. Spray your cologne on her pillow.
49. Give her a massage.
50. Stroke her hair softly letting it run throuh your fingers.
51. Let her have a day to do what she wants.
52. Make her a main priority in your life.
53. Give her a wake up call with words of love.
54. Secretly put glow in the dark stars on her ceiling.
55. Buy her jewelry for no reason.
56. Make everyday a Valentines Day.
57. Buy her a nice mirror and tell her every time she looks in it, she will know she sees the worlds most beautiful woman in your eyes.
58. Take her to the place you first met on the same date of every month.
59. Buy her a teddy bear.
60. Give her a sponge bath in candle light.
61. Let her know because of her, You have the world.
62. Let her know she is your world.
63. Surprise her with an event she likes.
64. Tuck her in and softly kiss her forehead.
65. Buy her scented soaps and oils she likes.
66. Take her on a row boat ride.
67. Kiss her hand as much as possible.
68. Hold her close while you sleep.
69. Steal her heart and write her a randsom note.
70. Dedicate your love to her.
71. Take her to karaoke and sing her a song or offer to sing a love duet even if you can not sing.
72. Sit on top of the roof and gaze at the stars together.
73. Change her screen saver to 3D text with a loving message.
74. Dance with her listening to oldies on the radio.
75. Buy a toy crown and treat her like a Queen.
76. Bake her a heart shaped cake and feed it to her.
77. Take her on a horse and carriage ride at night.
78. Give her a face mask followed with a massage.
79. Buy her a favorite collectible she has been yearning for.
80. Carve a heart in a tree with both of your initials in a place you know she will see it.
81. Make her a mural of your memories past.
82. Get a menu from the restaurant and gift wrap it with a date invitation.
83. Send her a singing telegram with balloons and flowers.
84. Give her a candle lit picnic in the back yard.
85. Tell her she has a smile that you love to kiss.
86. Buy her a locket with your picture inside.
87. Send her a single rose anonymously for 12 days. Not letting her know it is you. On the 12th day send the final rose with a card signed by you.
88. Find the history of her name and the meaning and have it framed.
89. Get a nice size rock and carve your love in to it and place it outside her door step where she can see it.
90. Buy her a crystal ashtray (even if she does not smoke) and have a message of love engraved in it.
91. Tell her the many reasons you have fallen in love with her.
92. Recite to her quotes of love just out of the blue.
93. Create a newspaper type newsletter of all of your memories and send it to her through the mail.
Add a few coupons she can use.
94. Learn to say I love you in as many different languages as possible and recite them to her one by one.
95. Let her know you miss her even if she is gone for a short while.
96. Make her a VHS video of yourself pouring out your love to her.
97. Leave a rose and a note on her car at work, when she reads it walk up to her and give her a hug and a kiss.
98. Create a drive in movie in your back yard using a TV/VCR/DVD.
99. Ask her "Do you know who you remind me of?" When she asks back "Who?" You reply absolutely no one. It lets her know she is one in a trillion.
100. Buy a bottle of her favorite wine, Soak it in water until the lable comes off. Create a new lable and rename the wine with a loving message
TOP ROMANCE TIPS
- One of the most popular daily romance tips is to send your partner flowers at work. Attach a note saying something like "I may not say it often, but you are the bestest lover in the whole world."
- Make small love notes and hide them at places where he/she is sure to find, but least to expect, it. For example, in the bathroom closet, in his/her wallet/purse, etc.
- One day surprise him/her by planning a warm and cozy candle lit dinner at home, complete with wine and soft music.
- Send a romantic e-mail to your partner, telling how much you love him/her and how your life has become beautiful after he/she become a part of it.
- Buy a nice and romantic card from a shop, write your feelings in it and get it hand delivered to him/her in the office.
- Plan a little surprise for your partner. Buy tickets for some romantic movie and book a table for both of you in his/her favorite restaurant. Be outside his/her office at the usual time he/she leaves and surprise him/her with your plan.
- Give your partner a hug and a kiss, when he/she is least expecting it.
- Take your partner to the roof one night. Sit together, snuggle up and gaze at the stars. Now tell your partner how much you love him/her.
- When it is raining, take him outside and get wet together. Or you can even snuggle under one umbrella.
- Take your partner on a long drive. Go to all the places that hold some romantic memories from your past.
HOLIDAY ROMANCE
When on romantic holiday live in the present... not in the past or the future. There is nothing you can do about the past and enjoying every moment of your present romantic escape is likely to be one of the best things you can do for your future. Don't miss a moment, enjoy a little romance now.
You should leave some things at home. By those free romance tips we are not talking about what you pack for your trip. We are talking about everyday things like who does what, even more importantly who doesn't do what, etc.
It could also mean leaving your kids behind... it's for sure easier to spend quality romantic time together without them.
That however doesn't mean you can't have some romantic moments together if the kids are around. Just make sure you get some privacy once in a while. Same free romance tips apply if you are travelling with other people or in a group, make sure you get some time alone with your loved one.
Watch your language. Romantic couples use more us and less you. They avoid “loaded” and judgmental words, like “you always”, “you never”, “if only”, etc. They use more caring and loving words - more positive and less negative words. Romantic couples are not afraid of praising each other. We all love praise, just remember to be sincere. You can always find something positive to say... as well as negative. The difference is that there is no space for negative words on a romantic holiday.
Maybe one of the best free romance tips is to relax and laugh a lot. There are few things that are better aphrodisiac than good laughter.
Use body language to enhance the romantic mood. Don't be afraid to be all touchy feely. You are on a romantic holiday, you are allowed to behave like newlyweds. Kiss good morning, kiss good night - kiss just for the sake of kissing. Hold hands, toast for your love, share a shower, apply sun block with tender loving care, give each other massage... use any opportunity to touch a lot.
Make love. It is difficult to think of romantic holiday without a romance sex and ideally a lot of it. The quality should though be more important than the quantity. Holiday romance sex should involve some memorable moments.
Romance sex can be taking a hot bubble bath together prior to going to bed. It can be revealing new sexy underwear after a night out. It can be new location or position never tried before. It can long sensual massage with warm scented oils. It can be candles and the sound of the waves.
Romance sex is usually spending more time making love than you normally have available.
Free romance tips recommend letting your accommodation enhance the romantic mood. You don't have to stay in a luxury resort for that. Any accommodation can be made more romantic with few candles or flowers.
Reduce the light, for example by throwing some light fabric over the bedside lights. Access to private outdoor area will always add a little romance... you can have nightcap under the stairs or romantic breakfast outdoors.
Water tends to have relaxing and romantic affect on most people. If you have access to swimming pools, Spa Holiday or hot tub you can use that to your romantic advantages. Sharing a hot bubble bath, maybe with bubbles in a glass as well, is another romantic option. So is taking a shower together or swimming in the ocean at midnight... be careful though.
Make romantic gestures, small gifts and surprises are usually considered very romantic. It could be gift of flowers, chocolate, wine, fruits or some other special favorite food. It could be small gift like scented oils, new underwear or romantic CD. It could also be surprise activity, like tickets to a local concert or surprise boat trip around the island.
Do romantic things together. Go on romantic picnic with gourmet food and bottle of wine. Walk on the beach at sunset. Order room service... all the most extravagant food on the menu. Watch the stars together. Sleep later than normal, try sleeping naked if not used to it.
Spend a day being pampered together in a spa. Pick wild flowers. The list is endless, only your imagination is the limit when looking for ideas how to romance your wife or husband.
Few things are more memorable then when doing something for the first time, so try new things together.
Try new food and share it... order each a new dish and give each other a taste. And do new things together, create shared experience.
Bungee jumping might be too much for most romantic couples but how about a helicopter ride or balloon flight.
How about jet skiing, river rafting, elephant ride, scuba diving, kayaking, horseback riding, quad biking, salsa lesson, chocolate making, wine tasting...
Romantic dinners play an important role in any romantic escape. Romantic holidays are therefore not the time to be watching what you eat too devotedly - as it could easily spoil the experience if your partner doesn't share your diet restrictions. That's not saying you have to overindulge, just try to relax a little bit if you normally follow strict diet.
It's hardly very romantic experience to be enjoying a juicy steak with a glass of red wine while the companion is dutifully dining on salad (with the dressing untouched on the side) enjoyed with glass of water. You might want to share a dessert, your partner is likely to be happy to eat most of it anyway.
Do acquire some special souvenir, something that just the two of you know the true value of. It doesn't have to be expensive - ideally it isn't, but it should be something special. It could be local handcraft, artwork, CD or just stone you found on the beach you had your romantic picnic on. Something you can watch, touch or listen to... anytime you want to relive the lovely romantic feelings you had on your romantic escape with your loved one.
Last but not least of the free romance tips... just enjoy spending some time together. You don't always have to be doing something and you should definitely not always be doing something with other people
ROMANCE TIPS FOR MENS
Kiss her very slowly. There is something very sensual about kissing slowly. Take your time and give her a kiss that she will not soon forget.
Tap her on her backside once in a while. This shows that you are still into her. It gives her a sense of security about her relationship with you, and lets her know that you care about her.
Play romantic music. This one will score you some serious points. But the music cannot be lame. If you have some decent tunes on hand, go ahead and use them. If not, you may need to buy a few good titles.
Surprise your partner. Romance should be spontaneous whenever possible. Unexpected romantic acts are essentially what make romance so special. Buy her favorite treat, and put it in her mouth before bed. Grab a small bouquet of flowers, and give them to her. Let her know that you were thinking about her. Buy a nice bottle of wine to share with your partner. You get the idea.
Offer your undivided attention, whenever she is talking to you about something important. Most women want their men to be good communicators, which includes being able to listen. So giving her your complete attention goes a long way. When she is talking to you, make your partner feel that there is no one else in your universe. Get close, look into her eyes, and listen intently to whatever she has to say. Do not drift in and out of the conversation. Focus your thoughts on her, stay there, and show that you are paying attention.
Take a shower or bubble bath together. You may not be into this type of thing. But water can add a sense of sensuality and romance. Take time to touch her body, and enjoy a nice, relaxing moment with your partner.
Order some takeout, or cook a nice dinner. Having a man take care of dinner is romantic, and usually appreciated. If you are feeling up to it, light a candle and put a few pillows on the living room floor to change the atmosphere.
There you have it. Try a few of these romance tips for men to spice up your relationship. Do not go overboard and try them all at once. Romance your partner once in a while, and she will love you for it.
